Challenges with Party bars

[Golconda]

Ok, I installed UUI and found it to be a great tool except for one small problem...something in it that I can't figure out has screwed up my party bars, sometimes I can click on people sometimes I can't. When I do click on people and it pulls up their bigger info on the screen it always shows them as PvP even if they aren't. Anybody know if there is a good mod that might help to counter some of these party things. I used to have a mod that was really awesome but right now I would just be happy to have the party listing back to normal.

I also like being able to see what buffs are on my party members or debuffs as well as pets although I heard that pets now show up in party bars but not sure. Any help would be greatly appreciated