losing my menus after 1 sec

[khurzog]

ok here's a puzzle for everyone. i'm not going to list every addon i run, because its 150+ but i keep having a problem with drop down menus (the right click type) when i first log in it's fine, and reloading UI fixes it every time, but at some point it always breaks. what happens is that any menu gets canceled out (as if escape were pressed) about 1 second after it opens. all drop downs are affected by this, not any particular addon, but it's most noticeable when i want to change my recount, mess with an option from a unit frame, or browse atlas/atlasloot. if i'm fast enough i can make it work, but it's still very frustrating. the problem with diagnosing it, is that i can't make it break on demand, it just happens, so my normal process of elimination routine is fairly ineffective. any help would be greatly appreciated =D thanks