Kendian: Is it Stuf or BF that doesn't stay after a /reload? Also, in those screenshots, am I looking at the large buttons (which appear to not have changed), or the smaller auras (which do seem to have changed a bit)?
Orak: The more recent updates probably moved the placement around somewhat. My computer is currently in for repairs, so I can't look it up for you, but if you use the search feature on whatever application you are using to edit the LUA, try searching for "CreateFrame" (without quotations), as the frame being created is the frame that you need to use for your SetBackdrop. I hope that isn't too confusing...
Lordyfb: Once I get my computer back, I'll give that code snippet a shot (for Stuf_Raid)! I hope it works
Groin: In what way? I don't understand :P I know this thread can be a bit convoluted at times, but if I can help, I'll try!
Sorry for the (extremely) late responses, school + RL + computer repairs... kinda makes it tricky