This link should be useful:
http://wowprogramming.com/docs/secur.../Group_Headers
The nameList filter should be passed as parameters when you spawn your header frames.
e.g.
Code:
local header = self:SpawnHeader(nil, nil, 'party,raid',
'showPlayer', true,
'showParty', true,
'showRaid', true,
'nameList', 'ToonA,ToonB,ToonC',
'initial-width', 100,
'initial-height', 25,
'oUF-initialConfigFunction', [[
local header = self:GetParent()
self:SetWidth(header:GetAttribute('initial-width'))
self:SetHeight(header:GetAttribute('initial-height'))
]]
)