Tracking and quests
 

I have been looking all over the menu and cant seem to find anything to help with this, id like to turn off, when setting a goto point or quest the mini map doesnt zoom out to show from me to end target, also another problem i cant figure out is how to set it up to stop auto accepting quest, thanks.

Auto scale. In the title bar of the Carbonite map, there are 2 buttons in the upper-right corner. The left-most of these toggles the auto-scaling of the map.

thank a bunch

Auto accepting quests is something Blizzard added for level 1-4 characters. They have no way to disable that.